When I was a young student learning piano, I was entered for many musical competitions / scholarships.
I seldom enjoyed these events as they not only required a ton of preparation, they also required me to face some of my deepest fears… performance nerves, fear of facing audiences and adjudicators, fear of freezing up or drawing a memory blank during a performance, and the fear that I just wouldn’t play at my best — all of which can be summarized as the fear of failure.
The other day, I was sorting through some old folders containing personal documents and I came across a bunch of written assessments of my playing as a child / teenager by adjudicators at such events.
I didn’t spare the time to read them from start to finish as, to be honest, I was retiscent about reliving the mistakes and failings of the past. But a cursory glance across the scores was enough to remind me of many often painfully disappointing memories.
As Beethoven once said, “Nothing is more intolerable than to have to admit to yourself your own errors”.
Fast forward to the current day. Sure, I still experience the normal human emotions of nervousness, etc. around a performance, but I have learned how to manage those fears, and my playing (especially when I have practiced) is at level that is deeply fulfilling… at times even transcendent.
Now that I have achieved my piano playing goals, my life is consequently forever enriched.
So having come from what seems like a string of never-ending failures, how did I arrive at a point of consummate playing ability which, for the purpose of this article, we’ll call success?
The answer my friend is blowing in the wind. The secret is this…
Failures Are The Stepping Stones To Success.
Failure after failure and all the disappointment that goes hand in hand with the process is precisely the journey you must undertake to achieve success in any walk of life.
This is not only normal and natural, it is formative, character-building and it separates the wheat from the chaff in terms of what your true priorities are. If your goal is important enough to you, you will dust yourself off and try again, and again, and again until you succeed.
As Henry Ford put it, “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently”.
From time to time, I receive inquiries from piano students who are struggling for whatever reason either with a particular piece or just in general. They typically indicate that they don’t enjoy not being able to do “X” because they feel they should be able to do it and they are frustrated and I guess disappointed in themselves as this particular moment.
First up, let me just say that I understand… more than you can possibly know.
Depending on each individual scenario, I can usually offer students just the right tip(s) to help them overcome whatever their current difficulty is. But perhaps more importantly, on a deeper level, it is important and helpful for all students to understand that failures and disappointment from time to time are to be expected.
The key is to embrace your failures and feelings of failure and know that these are exactly what you need at this moment in time.
Your failures are in reality taskmasters that hold you to account. They are the best coach you will ever have. They will toughen you, help you to re-focus and give you a laser-like clarity of vision that, if you persist, will make success inevitable.
How does the Musiah piano lessons software help with this process?
For one thing, Musiah makes managing failures a lot easier than the traditional learning path that I went through.
Within the Musiah piano lessons app, when you audition each piece for Musiah (your A.I. virtual teacher), if you don’t get a great score / feedback, you can try again as many times as you like until you achieve your goal which, for example, might be to earn 5 stars for a particular piece.
If you receive a student progress report which shows low scores for a number of pieces, you can choose to work on them further until your next report card shows higher scores / more stars for each piece.
And if you fail one of the virtual performance challenges that occur at the end of each level, you can try again – all in the privacy and comfort of your own home with no embarrassment and no one judging you.
With Musiah’s guidance, your failures and any potentially negative impact they might have will be minimized but you will still learn from them, and grow and improve as you work step by step towards your goal of being able to play piano.
On your piano lessons journey, there is no need to do it the harder (traditional) way like I did. With Musiah’s piano lessons, a clear road-map is laid out before you. All you need to do is trust Musiah to guide you every step of the way, knowing that even at times when you may feel like you are failing, you are exactly where you need to be.
You can do it!
With just a little tenacity and a focused desire to learn, you will definitely get there — and you'll do it much sooner with Musiah than any other piano lessons, method or program.
To start your journey that will have you playing like a pro in the shortest possible amount of time, simply take our Free Online Piano Lessons 14 Day Trial.
Thanks for reading and please feel free to comment below.
Piano Teacher & Musiah Inventor
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